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Features Ready to Get to Work? Bring it On! Wise women (and funny ladies) Byron Katie and Jane Lynch

Sagar — Wed, 21 Sep 2011 15:30:35 +0000

Wise women (and funny ladies) Byron Katie and Jane Lynch discuss the big questions we face every day.

Ready to Get to Work? Bring it On!

Jane Lynch has spent years trying to get right with herself. In her new memoir, Happy Accidents (Voice), the actress who stars as Sue Sylvester

Casey Heynes Bullying victim speaks

Sagar — Sun, 18 Sep 2011 12:09:51 +0000

What happens when you don’t believe what you think. There might have been other ways and this was the way for this boy. He was honest articulate . And there are no victims. And Casey does not call himself a victim. A boy who is bullied turns the event around. He is modest unassuming and honest.

Now this is the title and he is not a victim though the mind would like to make it so. He is not a hero and again this is mind trying to make somethe what they are not. Could be he is a person that respond to what is for him.

Byron Katie Event Amsterdam

Sagar — Sat, 30 Jul 2011 20:01:19 +0000

For those of you who missed this event. Well, that was for me wonderful learning and good to be in the atmosphere of the work. The most important thing for me was to hear and see Katie helping people stay in the work and not to leave the work for their story.

What is the work it is IQ. Investigate (the inquiry) the thoughts that you are believing that cause you suffering. And Question them using the 4 question that are the work. Katie calls The Work the 4 questions the mechanics for coming out of pain and suffer and dis-pare.

You can down load all that you need to get started straight away doing the work on a painful reoccurring thoughts. Just click on the link below from the resource page.

http://www.thework.com/dothework.php

The resources are free. And if want to experience the work immediately you can call the help at no charge and an experienced facilitator who is part of the institute for the work will do the work with you. You can also contact a certified facilitator to work with in your area or over Skype. This is the link: http://www.thework.com/facilitators.php

You can also find a certified facilitator to work with. It not necessary and when the mind is stuck it can help move you.

You can find my information on thework.com and on my contact details.

The Past is only a Possibility: According to Hawking and Mlodinow

Sagar — Tue, 29 Mar 2011 15:37:32 +0000

infinite possibilities

Investigate you thing as suggested by the work of Byron Katie will leaves you with infinite possibilities, to live you life kinder, loving, creative and harmonious.

According to Hawking and Mlodinow, one consequence of the theory of quantum mechanics is that events in the past that were not directly observed did not happen in a definite way. Instead they happened in all possible ways. This is related to the probabilistic nature of matter and energy revealed by quantum mechanics: Unless forced to choose a particular state by direct interference from an outside observation, things will hover in a state of uncertainty.

For example, if all we know is that a particle traveled from point A to point B, then it is not true that the particle took a definite path and we just don’t know what it is. Rather, that particle simultaneously took every possible path connecting the two points.

Yeah, we’re still trying to wrap our brains around this.

The authors sum up: “No matter how thorough our observation of the present, the (unobserved) past, like the future, is indefinite and exists only as a spectrum of possibilities.”

Article from live science by Clara Moskow

Unlimited thinking WD 40

Sagar — Sat, 19 Feb 2011 17:20:02 +0000

Becoming Unstuck from everything

What is WD 40? It’d s spray oil we use it on almost everything which is stuck and needs to be freed from it’s rust or water damaged.

“It took them 40 attempts to get the water displacing formula worked out. WD-40_®—which stands for Water Displacement and perfected on the 40th try—is still in use today.” and un-sticking all sorts of things.

So what is the point of talking about WD 40?

I happen use on my bicycle chain and used lots of on my motorcycle and old VW Beetle.
It took 40 tries to get it working. The only thing they knew that there is a way out of being stuck and rusted and things need to be moving again.
Where is your focus. Wayne Dyer has talked about fly was not done by focusing on not flying and get iron ships to float was not done by focusing on the sinking of things. focus on getting things moving.
If you can identify, the thoughts that keep you from having peace, clarity, joy and a wonderful life. You are in the beginning of the process of getting unstuck. Focusing on what is not working in your life, will give you more of what does not work and then becomes the proof that life is stuck and sucks. (And there is a book called why your life sucks by Alan h. Cohen worth reading).

Now back to WD 40 and the work of Byron Katie.

Using the JudgeYourNeighborworksheet down loadable at http://www.thework.com/dothework.php is the first step to identify your thoughts that are keeping you stuck (rusting and not moving). Then we apply the WD 40 that is the 4 questions and the turnarounds: http://www.thework.com/dothework.php to the thoughts that are keeping you stuck. And it could take 40 times or 1 time or 100 times to become unstuck. Just think of it if the Wright brothers gave up after their first attempt. We would still be sitting on the ground wondering if we could fly? And just like in the case of developing WD 40 you never know when you suddenly become free or fly.

Applying the 4 questions and turnarounds to your stuck thoughts and then suddenly you are unstuck and free to fly. Love you Sagar give me a call to become unstuck.

20 Questions That Could Change Your Life from Oprah

Sagar — Mon, 24 Jan 2011 22:27:24 +0000

2 0 ques tion that could change your life

This is close to the work of Byron Katie and is not the work. For me, as a result of looking at what you believe testing it with the 4 questions of “thework”. You then will be living these 20 questions(with the answers) and the way to live will come out of your understanding and clarity and experience. And when you move back into suffering confusion and unhappiness. You can begin again, find you way back though doing the work of Byron Katie. By simply filling in a JYN worksheet found at www.thework.com, which helps you identify thoughts creating your suffering and then questing them with 4 questions and moving into turn around of your original statements. So these 20 questions that can could change your life are really 4 questions that change your mind and lead to living a changed life. as I read this again please go to www.thework.com look around watch some videos do thework and you will find your own answers. L. Sagar

Yoga of the Mind—Stretch Your Mind (Do I Need Your Love, it is it true?) Byron Katie

Sagar — Tue, 12 Oct 2010 15:18:29 +0000

Title: Yoga of the Mind—Stretch Your Mind (Do I Need Your Love, it is it true?) Byron Katie
Location: Antwerp, Belgium
Link out: Click here
Description: What you say shows what you believe I can do this stretch or my body doesn’t work this way. Both are true and show’s what you believe. The body will follow the mind and one works for you and one keeps you limited.

Well it is the same for the mind. Thoughts limit our ability to move in the outer and inner world. Because we limit what we believe we limit our ability to move…

The work of Byron Katie is more like a dance. Flowing, moving, allowing, trusting the movement. And shows us what we can do without the limiting thoughts that appear in the mind.

Come stretch your mind beyond what you believe is possible.

Spend this day learning to come out of limiting beliefs and find peace with what is.

East West Centre: Van Schoonbekestraat 148, 2018 Antwerpen
Date: 2010-11-06

Ever try to fix someone?

Sagar — Mon, 27 Sep 2010 12:44:38 +0000

If you ever feel motivated to fix someone, here is a word of advice: Nothing is more annoying to you than someone who tries to change you or coerce you to their way of thinking. Ultimately you become only more defiant. Why would you expect someone else to respond otherwise? No one wants to be fixed. They just want to be loved. No one wants to be labeled. They just want to be appreciated. No one wants to be seen as defective. They just want to be whole. When you appreciate people for who they are, you create an ideal environment for them to grow. When you focus on their positive qualities and emphasize their talents, they will feel so accepted and empowered that their dysfunctions will have no reinforcement, and melt away naturally. Advice, pressure, and punishment do not heal. The great healer is love.

Trying to fix others is a long, frustrating, and ultimately losing battle. You will never succeed because you began with three false premises: 1) There is something wrong with them; 2) You know what their problem is and how they should be living instead; and 3) You have the right and power to choose for them or to force them to make the choices you think they should make.

It seems easier to try to change others than to face yourself. Yet it is not your purpose to repair another person. Your purpose is to wake up. You need not fix yourself because you are not broken, and you need not fix others because they are not broken. rather than try to change them, upgrade your vision.

Workshop using the work of Byron Katie Stretch Your Mind

Sagar — Sun, 12 Sep 2010 17:17:45 +0000

A reminder: I am giving workshop in Antwerp. 19th sept…we will look into the heart of the matter—of what we believe to be true and keeps us from having the time of our lives.

We will do the work of Byron Katie all day and learn again that we are only a thought away from laughing away our apparent troubles. Perhaps I will see you there.

to register:

http://www.owc.be/en/cursussen/detail.mv?id=3377

to learn about me:

www.changeyourmindchangeyourlife.org

staying in thework and doing the work

Sagar — Wed, 25 Aug 2010 11:42:11 +0000

This example of the work, show that the work works only when you do the work. You can think about it, you can understand what the work is. However if you do not use it; apply it and live it your, life does not change. And it show thework lived is an on going process of questioning your long heald beliefs.

The recording might not be for everyone. It requires that you listen with an open mind. And let it in.

1-03 Day 3 – I Am In Debilitating Pain copy

This recording for me shows the courageousness of this women and her willingness to put what is happening out there.

Katie is clear loving and to the point. The work works when you question the mind. And it might take 3 days, 3 weeks, 3 months; it’s your and my freedom we are talking about.

The recording is taken from The New Years Cleanse that Katie leads in LA. It takes place over 4 days and Katie does the work with participants from 10 – 5 each day.

Some one in the cleanse said I was told to get ready for the ride and I thought I know what that meant…and I was not prepared for what a ride it is. It is a wonderful way to end the year and to give your self a present. Enjoy the ride of this recording. This recording is the property of Byron Katie, Inc.

You can find out more information about the cleanse @

http://www.thework.com/events.php?eid=24#24

And more information about me and how I work with individual clients and business @

http://changeyourmindchangeyourlife.org/coaching-the-work-of-byron-katie/